đ§ Overview
Parenting is constant â and it's easy to lose track of how you are doing. This check-in is here to help you pause, reflect, and realign. You can use it weekly, monthly, or anytime you feel off balance.
You deserve to be well â not just functional.
đ How to Use This Page
- Find 5â10 quiet minutes
- Answer the prompts below honestly
- There are no right answers
- This is not about fixing yourself â itâs about noticing yourself
đĄď¸ 1. Mood & Energy
On a scale of 1â5 (1 = low, 5 = high):
- Overall mood today:
- Energy level:
- Stress level:
- Patience with my child(ren):
- Patience with myself:
Whatâs one word that describes how you feel right now?
đŹ 2. Journal Prompts
- Whatâs been weighing on me lately?
- What have I been avoiding or putting off?
- Whatâs something I need but havenât asked for?
- Whatâs something Iâm proud of this week â big or small?
- If I could give myself one kind word or reminder today, what would it be?
đ§Š 3. Check-In with Needs
How am I doing in these areas:
Area | Feeling okay â
| Needs attention â ď¸ |
Sleep | [ ] | [ ] |
Nutrition | [ ] | [ ] |
Movement | [ ] | [ ] |
Connection (with others) | [ ] | [ ] |
Time for myself | [ ] | [ ] |
What's one small thing I could do this week to support one of these needs?
â¤ď¸ 4. Permission Slips
Give yourself permission to:
- Feel multiple things at once
- Ask for help
- Rest when youâre tired
- Parent imperfectly
- Say no
- Change your mind
- Not respond to texts right away
- Be a human, not just a caregiver
đ Sources
- Postpartum Support International. âMental Health Tools for Parentsâ
- American Psychological Association. âMonitoring Mental Wellness in Parenthoodâ
- The Gottman Institute. âParental Stress & Emotional Awarenessâ