🧠 Mental Health Check-In for Parents

🧘 Overview

Parenting is constant — and it's easy to lose track of how you are doing. This check-in is here to help you pause, reflect, and realign. You can use it weekly, monthly, or anytime you feel off balance.

You deserve to be well — not just functional.

📝 How to Use This Page

  • Find 5–10 quiet minutes
  • Answer the prompts below honestly
  • There are no right answers
  • This is not about fixing yourself — it’s about noticing yourself

🌡️ 1. Mood & Energy

On a scale of 1–5 (1 = low, 5 = high):

  • Overall mood today:
  • Energy level:
  • Stress level:
  • Patience with my child(ren):
  • Patience with myself:
What’s one word that describes how you feel right now?

💬 2. Journal Prompts

  • What’s been weighing on me lately?
  • What have I been avoiding or putting off?
  • What’s something I need but haven’t asked for?
  • What’s something I’m proud of this week — big or small?
  • If I could give myself one kind word or reminder today, what would it be?

🧩 3. Check-In with Needs

How am I doing in these areas:

Area
Feeling okay ✅
Needs attention ⚠️
Sleep
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Nutrition
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Movement
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Connection (with others)
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Time for myself
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What's one small thing I could do this week to support one of these needs?

❤️ 4. Permission Slips

Give yourself permission to:

  • Feel multiple things at once
  • Ask for help
  • Rest when you’re tired
  • Parent imperfectly
  • Say no
  • Change your mind
  • Not respond to texts right away
  • Be a human, not just a caregiver

📚 Sources

  1. Postpartum Support International. “Mental Health Tools for Parents”
  2. American Psychological Association. “Monitoring Mental Wellness in Parenthood”
  3. The Gottman Institute. “Parental Stress & Emotional Awareness”